Originally Posted By: LanceSijan
Originally Posted By: PEImom_of_3
Originally Posted By: Truegritter

Who is my W?
...
Are her values and integrity aligned with someone I would choose to be with?


^^^ I soooooo totally relate to this man.

For both of you.
Whomever they are right now is not who they will be when the crisis ends.
To judge them while in the storm is a mistake IMHO.



Lance,

Their questions, are normal...

They HAVE to weigh this out...

We all know the crisis, can go on for a very very long time and sometimes, it never ends...

In finding answers to these questions right now, they are taking steps for themselves.

It does not mean they are judging who their S's are, as a lifelong sentence to something...

It means that they are looking at the situation as it stands in the moment and seeing how they feel about it...

How it aligns with who they are becoming...


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox