Originally Posted By: PEImom_of_3
Originally Posted By: Truegritter

Who is my W?
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Are her values and integrity aligned with someone I would choose to be with?


^^^ I soooooo totally relate to this man.

For both of you.
Whomever they are right now is not who they will be when the crisis ends.
To judge them while in the storm is a mistake IMHO.