The camping is in line for our family. D3's first camping trip was at 3 months. We have always done a lot of camping together & D3 loves it. She was asking both of us all summer to go and we both told her we would take her. I took her once on my own about a month ago. She loved it, but it was a bit much for me emotionally. I hadn't gone camping without my H in 14 years.
As far as what difference this really makes, I'm not sure. Like you said, he plans to file anyway. In my state I can write a 'morality clase' into my divorce, but we have to agree to it. I think I have a good chance of him agreeing to that, but mostly because he won't want me bringing anyone over. This particular OW is sticky because she was arround D# before H left. When to introduce her to someone she already knows, eh?
I did like this lawyer. She gave me a lot of resources to look at. Also, since my D3 is in a state program, H will not be able to get a divorce without paying child support. If he agrees to more, great, but there will be a minimum set by the state. I get to save my energy for other fights. There will be plenty too. H doesn't understand the reality of what he is doing to us. He is still lost in his fantasy.
