Cloudnine...I thought I'd chime in here. You asked how weird it would be to make love to your W again, after she's had this fling. Having been through that in a prior marriage, let me tell you: it will be as weird as you make it. You can let the thoughts of fireman consume you while your touch your W's most private parts, or you can just file it away, enjoy the moment with your W, give her the attention she deserves and craves, and get past it all. It's a tall order, but worth it. Remember, SHE was able to get past it knowing you had been with another woman. She deserves the same compassion from you.
