I think my message tonight will be the following if it is brought up:
- Neither of us are ready to move back in, there are a lot of trust issues that still reside and I would like to work on that first - I've had terrible advice from my men's group mentor, and give her examples - I'm on different meds from the doctor who's said I have GAD - Almost dying was not fun, and has made an impact on who I want to be and who I am. I don't want to waste another day being angry or hurt - I've made the mistake of expecting her to do the work required and take the initiative to fix all of this, which I won't make again. I'll just work on me which I should have been going on all along rather than focusing on her. - Validate. Validate. Validate.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch