I think my message tonight will be the following if it is brought up:

- Neither of us are ready to move back in, there are a lot of trust issues that still reside and I would like to work on that first
- I've had terrible advice from my men's group mentor, and give her examples
- I'm on different meds from the doctor who's said I have GAD
- Almost dying was not fun, and has made an impact on who I want to be and who I am. I don't want to waste another day being angry or hurt
- I've made the mistake of expecting her to do the work required and take the initiative to fix all of this, which I won't make again. I'll just work on me which I should have been going on all along rather than focusing on her.
- Validate. Validate. Validate.


----"Et tu, Brute?"----
me:28 W:24 S4
T:6
M:4
EA Exposed: 5/21/10
Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day)
NC w/ OM: 7/10/10
W moved out 8/21/10
http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch