My husband and I are separated and he has filed for D. We have limited contact and I try not to initiate any contact, but I'm also trying the advice of my DB coach and being a considerate and thoughtful friend to him.
You have limited contact. He is asking for you and your (plural) daughter to be there for Thanksgiving?
So, what happens if you say no?
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