Cyrena - Thank you so much for pointing me to some new reading material....I will definitely look it up. Very interesting, I want to learn more.
I've always thought that my need to help, fix and serve was just my personality....my childhood was pretty ordinary...two great parents that supported me in everything I wanted to do, encouraged and loved me.....I'm wondering if I shaped that way after I've met H and to what degree he influenced my personality.
I was hardly 16 when we started dating....he always had more confrontational, sometimes even arrogant personality...not just with me but with others as well...and I was the pacifier, diplomat, negotiator....It worked for us...I thought that we complimented each other in this.
Interesting what you uncover when you dig deep.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
