Sol, sorry about your mom! I hope she mends quickly. As for STBX, stay clear of him. I can't help but wonder whether this jealousy etc is based on getting some sort of D settlement out of you. He uses your feelings, knowing you don't want a D, and tries to manipulate you. I could be wrong but that's the feeling I have with this. If he wants you than let him drop the D, that would be proof he's serious. Otherwise, the heck with him!
