Another note:

I picked up my younger daughter this morning to take her to Disneyland. We're about on our way. I was civil to the wife, but didn't hang out either. I got the daughter, got her stuff, and told the wife to have a nice day, and that I'd drop her off tonight. That's it. Civil, yet I got us out of there quickly so she could have her space. I'm not acting pissy today, just very direct.