Doug (one of our good friends back in our hometown which is in a different state 5 hours away)wants us tobuy his property. He'd sell it to us kinda cheap too.
I replied (keeping in mind that my H has been talking about this since before the bomb dropped, but I had told him HELL NO and wouldn't even talk about it, which now I find out really upset him that I wouldn't even have a conversation about it):Its worth a discussion...what is your thought? the whole school thing down there sounds like it is messed up - which is sad.
He text back: yup. Wants fifty. said we could have it for 30 & his boat whenever we want.
My reply: Well, lets talk about it.
He text: I love it out there.
Then subject changed to when he was going to be working home. Couple hours later I get this text: I would just hate to have the girls leave thier friends.
My reply: Yep
He text: It might be worth it though
My reply: It is worth talking about, one step at a time. I want to talk about a future together but I don't even know what tomorrow holds.
HIS MLC REPLY : I know. no promises.
I didn't reply. I will say it again for the millionth time - he is CRAZY! I actually laugh. Here he is talking about moving back to our hometown, buying property, which would mean building a house, uprooting the girls, moving back to the location that is causing him anxiety attacks because of his family issues, BUT yet he can't promise me that we will get back together. insane I tell you - LOL!!!
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12