Day 1 -- good for you.

GW, please take some time to recharge your batteries and do something for GW. It's understandable that you're focusing on W and signs from her, but in order to feel strong within yourself (and incidentally attractive to her) you need to draw energy from outside your marriage and family. She is drawing energy from travelling and the stimulation of whatever she is doing. When you reunite, you want her to be intrigued about what you did, and you don't want to be stuck in "waiting for her to come home" mode.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp
.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.