I'm in no position to comment on asking him about who was there... will leave that to the experts but will continue to think about you today.
When do you expect him home?

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."