So far no parent counseling has been agreed on. In my county there is a parenting class that is required before you can get your divorce. When I got the talk I told him I wanted to go ahead and take the class.

Right now I am not letting myself make any decisions. I am just trying to concentrate on work and getting everything together for my lawyer appointment.

I also have a call out to talk to my IC.

At a minimum I believe I need to ask if anyone else was on the trip and let him know that I noticed that all 3 camping pads and chairs were gone.

Pulling out all that baby stuff meant moving boxes all over in the two spare bedrooms. The pads were kept in plain sight. I am honestly surprised I didn't notice they were all gone right away.

The chairs are kept in the garage. I only went out to see how many were gone after I realized the pads were gone.

When he comes to the house to put all the camping stuff away he is going to notice that both rooms have been rearanged.