I know how you feel about the person seeming like a stranger. I also know the feeling of thinking your H was never real in the first place. I would swear both of these to be true in my sitch too.

But... then I remember that he is in the 'fog' and not thinking clearly.

Continue to DB but maybe give yourself a break for a couple days.

Have you and your H talked about D/parent counseling for the sake of your D3?

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."