Hi GW,
The weekend was fine. Had to work and it was a bit busy so that helps.
Still absolutely no word from H on a response to my L's letter. So I guess we are on hold until after Jan.1. We have not spoken now for about 3 weeks.
My neighbor called on Friday to tell me she was in her car leaving her house around 10 AM and he was coming home and had a woman in the car with him. She described her as having very dark hair, much different than the OW I suspect. She also said that he saw her (the neighbor) and neither smiled/waved.
At first it didn't bother me, I could potentially explain away who it was but then it started to bother me more. Not like it would have before however. I find myself caring less and less about what he is doing. I was even able to have a good day yesterday.

I still find it a bit maddening that he didn't respond at all to the L letter.

Thanks for checking in.


(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."