Originally Posted By: Truegritter

I am calm now and back to my center.

All of this crap came back to me as I cycled through this "new" information.

Am I capable of dealing with this?

I know I am much stronger than I was.

I know that I am a different person.

I know I am capable of having a fulfulling life.

I am just questioning if that can happen with my W.



Gritter sir,

I totally think you are capable of dealing with whatever comes

your way. Dude! Your W is desperate and can only get the reaction

she wants from the people she talks to if she paints the picture

this way. You sir, know the truth. You are now getting more bits

and pieces of "all will be revealed". IF you and your wife ever

get back together again, you have got some of this in your head

now filed in the back of your mind. IF she eventually does share

what she was going through, it will make perfect sense to you

when that time comes IF it comes.

But for now, Grit my friend, I know this will eventually just be

a little bump in the road. We are all being tested.

You already know this. Whether it ends up with your W I don't

know. But you will be one h3ll of a man for whomever comes your

way. That woman will truly be a lucky gal.

WS