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I need a good kick in the ass for this one

Sounds like you have already given yourself one...

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She was extremly upset to the point she "wished she had a gun". I kinda just fell into the trap.

I don't think you fell into a trap unless you feel she made that up to get what she wanted. If you believed her, then you did the right thing. That is the mother of your children, and your kids need your mother, so helping her through this crisis is doing what works and is the right thing to do

What I don't understand is if you are still M, how does she owe you back child support?


M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11