Don't react. Keep doing what you have been doing. He is having a knee-jerk reaction. Let him think about this a while. If you jump back now, it won't work. You will be setting yourself up for more pain.
M:39 W:37 Together: 16 years Married: 11 years Bomb: May '09 (ILYBNILWY) Moved out: Nov '09 D: 10, 8, 4