New to all this....

[DoneAfter10]

Hi! My DB coach advised me to stop talking about the relationship and act like the strong, confident woman I was when we met and fell in love. She suggested that I act okay with the space and seperation/pending divorce and act as if I am truly moving on with my life. She suggested I be a generous and great friend to him--be thoughtful, courteous, and giving. At the same time; however, I take care of myself and always appear my best when he is around visiting with our daughter. I've tried these techniques since Thursday and so far notice no change in him or his decision to divorce, but my DB coach also told me not to expect any quick change or response from him. So, I'm just trying to follow her advice and see where it takes me. It's difficult b/c I miss him so much and want to save my marriage, but all the pleading and crying I've done to this point have only pushed him further away from me and he admits that I've pushed him away. I want to do anything to save my marriage b/c I know we can be happy and I want to raise my daugther with us together and give her the life she deserves and that God intended us to give her when He blessed us with her.