Wife abandoned me...Now What?

[Mike.4545]

Maybe I was trying to make changes for her, maybe just for myself, but probably both. Either way, I'm glad that I've been able to improve myself no matter the reasoning.

I don't have DR but have read countless other sources talking about this as an addiction...So yeah, I fully understand that and it's implications.

GW...I don't know. She's said over and over throughout our whole situation that her affair was a mistake and that she's so sorry for it...but then goes right on doing it more! She's convinced the OM is her soul-mate, and greatest love of her life though...so in that right...she won't admit their relationship to be a mistake.