NM, the date did NOT happen! This Meetup guy is so weird and I kind of get a yucky feeling from him.
In a nutshell: My golf Meetup group is a flop. Nobody ever wants to come. But this dude Tony has RSVP'd a few times and then has been has been funky about it.
Like this last time. I sent out a meetup announcement on Friday, I guess it was, and asked if anyone wanted to golf over the weekend. The weather report predicted beautiful weather and it might be our last nice weekend here in Michigan!
So Tony replied to my email right away, yes, he wanted to go golfing. Then he suggested Saturday night! HELLO- it gets dark at 5 p.m.! I responded back suggesting 2 p.m. and never heard from him. In my book, that's lame.
Anyway, I'm still thinking a lot about Mr. A, but the terms are slowly shifting - like now I'm more conscious of my own desires. BA, you hit the nail on the head - will I settle for just being the person he calls when he wants to be cheered up?
No.
But is there an alternative? I'm not sure. I'm glad I'm seeing my IC tomorrow!
