In the end, I don't believe she is going to give our relationship anymore time and will be filing for divorce herself. I've worked so hard to delay her pursuit of divorce actions, but at this point, I don't think there is any way I'm going to be able to stop her from moving forward.
Just doesn't seem like I have any control over it anymore. She hasn't been able to end her affair for more than 7-months that we've been separated, and I don't think she plans on divorcing me, to turn around and THEN end her affair.
I know that I've given 100% of everything I had to make it this far and that I left no stone unturned...So I guess I will be able to take that with me.
Her family is very apposed to all of this, and are very much hurt by it as well. They've supported me through all of this but are at a loss...as am I. Nothing they or I have done has made any difference. They don't support her relationship with the OM in any way...but my wife just keeps on truckin.
BLAH
M: 29, W: 28 Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09) Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10 Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010 Separated 5/22/10 - Present Affair exposed 7/7/10 No children
