She's probably feeling a whole slew of sh!t that has absolutely nothing to do with you.
Were I you, when you are at the counselor's tomorrow, I'd look her in the eye and tell her you are very confused by her actions over the last week or so, describing it for her as you have described here. Then ask her if the reason she has pulled away from you is because of Mr. Fireman. Then I'd go from there.
