Hi Johanna,

Thank you for strting the new thread. I was wondering when the other one would end. I am so grateful to you, and everyone else who shows interest, in giving me a sounding board.

My wife has gone very strange on me. She cheats on me, then we draw close to each other over the holiday, spending time together and talking, then on Monday she decides she needs space and is treating me with extreme distance ever since. Every contact is like a business transaction, very terse and to the point. I have no idea what's going on with her, and she's breaking my heart.

Please, please give me some insight into what she might be going through, and how I can handle this. She's willing to see a counselor, and I've set up an appointment for tomorrow afternoon for both of us. I'm afraid we'll walk in and she'll drop the bomb on me. God, I love her, but she is literally breaking my heart.

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