Not sure where to start or end? WAW? #4

[gutwrenching]

Great advice on listening. A WAS wants to be heard. That is one I learned. As it was once put to me, they become more selfish in WAS mode, probably because they are tired of their needs not being met.

I hear you on the editing. The good news is the experts are spending more times on these boards, I would personally prefer that maybe they point out why some things people are posting aren't in-line with DB and isn't good advice versus just wiping it out...but it is what it is...

Good luck, you've certainly been through quite a sitch of twists and turns