Thinking of you Peace. Sorry to hear that your xh is not in your kids lives. That hurts. Maybe it's for the best right now with your xh's unstable lifestyle.

One day I think you will be suprised and he will call or stop in. My first xh waltzed back into his son's life after 15 years of no contact. That was a suprise!

Keep focused on you and your kids. It is your xh's loss. I know that my xh regrets his life and is now focused on embracing each day he has left on this earth.

Stay positive!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"