Well, you might have triggers. But maybe they won't be as bad since you have a beau! Also, you won't be putting on the front of everything being fine while dealing with an H who wasn't into you.

It would be sad for your kids to have Santa come over at their dad's house....but they will be thrilled to see Santa also came to their mom's house when they return!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004