Well the girls were home earlier than anticipated. Not complaining but normally family BBQs last till late. H sent OW to the car and we chatted for a little while. Told me he would be back Sunday. Well he was at 6.20am. Holy Dooley that is early. LOL. I helped him with a sick parrot and he started talking and that happened for the rest of the day. The girls and I went to the markets and when we came back I we kept talking. Interspersed with chatting joking and laughing. We talked about our girls, what happened, how he's feeling, our dreams. No coming home talk but it was important stuff. He led the way each time. We discussed how we both said things that was misunderstood and put each other on the defensive. At one point he told me how good I was to stand by him while he went through this $hit I answered that I thought he was worth it always had even if I hadn't shown it. We also spoke about the OW as she has been buying the girls heaps, heaps of things now I don't begrudge the girls the stuff as I don't have alot of money but I told him that it was hard sometimes and HE said it feels like a competition and it feels bad for him as he can't afford to either and he asked her to stop but she won't. Well that's not my problem if she wants to emasculate him that works for me. It was a really nice day nothing Sorted out but it doesn't matter. I have no doubt he will withdraw again and that's ok as my life doesn't hang on his.
