One more piece of info I forgot to mention............X-SIL's birthday was last month. XH and I have talked about how old his sister is a few times recently: I thought she was one age, XH insisted she was another. I confirmed her age with X-SIL yesterday. XH was wrong even though she is only 2 1/2 years older than him. ......I guess he's still in the fog. --GAG