She says seperate or divorce after her affair help

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She doesn't want to work it doesn't want to talk about anything she just showed me a budget it turned emotional she complained about stuff from10 years. Ago and I ended up saying fine if u r that done get out so she's not sleepig here tonight maybe not again. I have the books but I think she has her mind set its seperate/divorce. And she says I don't know what the future holds either way she needs a break from me right now and a week at a time isn't doing it. Maybe we will have a normal conversation when she brings the kids back maybe I should just give up. Why couldn't she have spoken her mind all these years then we wouldn't be here.