Does anyone else believe their spouse was a truly different person while having the affair? I feel like my h and the ow got some sort of sick "high" off of what they were doing. I don't mean their feelings for eachother, b/c I know that made them feel good, but like the idea of what they were doing to me and the other woman's husband. It is like my husband glorified it- the songs that he would pick to send her off of i-tunes were song like "creeping" or being "heartless" or one was called "wake-up call" and it was all about getting caught having an affair. I just don't get it. Is this truly who they are or do they become someone else?
