Zen, just reading over how it went when he spoke about filing....seems to me he is putting the divorce in there, but also making sure you are THERE still....safety....what do you think?
Its just something I'm now extra sensitive too - them wanting their safety net and wanting to keep you there as a friend still...so if this new life they've chosen for themselves doesnt work out, they have plan B.
This always infuriates me a bit....and I noticed as soon as theres a sign that H is losing me, he changes his behaviour.
Dunno, just thinking out loud.
Having said that , my sending him an email asking if he wants to try again, is definatly not good behaviour...but I cracked...
