Here we go down, down, down...

[25yearsmlc]

Thanks 25. I can do this.

I still want H to come home, but I am making plans to move on. My H has done a lot that would normally send me into a tizzy of hopefulness. He told me today his last day at the store he works at with probable OW is in a week. I am finally starting to take "good news" with a grain of salt though.

I'm lost. What's the good news? He's switching jobs? Oh. And that's B/C OF OW? oh, it's not related at all is it? So you are thinking and hoping that IF he leaves the job and THIS OW, then all might turn around and be better? Really? B/C I could swear just a few days ago, he told you he plans to file for Div.

Hey I'm not trying to be a beeyotch. But you need a little 2 x4 here. You start to make REAL progress, and it's as if it scares you b/c then you go right back to a "tizzy of hopefulness"...for what? I'd act as if you didn't notice any significance at all to his announcement, given that he's FILING for Divorce...I mean, what diff does it make if the A ends, and he still files?

Focus on the other shore...not the one you are swimming away from. You CAN do this. Back to you...