It sounds as though you handled yourself with poise and grace. If I was OW, I would have been annoyed at seeing that. It's possible that she may nag H about it. You might want to prepare yourself for a possible withdrawal from H.
I second GAG on all accounts but you were so strong to not quickly walk away from the car or show you were upset or anything negative.
You (acted) comfortable, you joked around, you DIDN'T EVEN LOOK AT HER. I hope she felt so small and ashamed!!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
My question is - why was ow sitting in the back seat of the truck? Am I the only one that thinks that's a little strange?
Even though CW's H brought ow along with, at least he got out of the truck and came over to the car to talk to her so therefore making sure she didn't get out and have to see the ow.
I just did the above post and decided to just come out and ask D12 how she rated getting to sit in the front seat with her Dad? She looked at me kinda puzzled.....
IS EVERYONE READY FOR A GOOD LAUGH????
D12 just explained that she meant that OW went with them cutting wood...she was NOT in the truck afterall....
Is everyone laughing along with me...only my laugh sounds like it belongs to someone in a straight jacket...and my left eye is twitching and I woke with a headache for no reason!!!
But again...thankyou for all of the kinds words and responses! At least we know that I will be able to handle it if it does happen!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
You've had two positive encounters with your H in two days! Nice to hear of him peeking out of the tunnel and keeping his word in bringing you heating material!
Just another example that things are not always as they appear to be. YIKES!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry you went through that emotional episode. This will be a good reminder next time to not make assumptions (I know that it is hard not to do. I am guilty myself.)
I agree with Seeking. You HAVE had some positive interactions!
