How do you move on...when do you just give up?

[AntoniaB]

I think if you're at the point where you have the evidence and you're asking if you did the right thing, that means that in your heart you did do what you wanted to do, and from now on, you live with that. In the end, it has to be about what you can live with, and there must be some part of you that felt it was right to file or you would not have. If you did this after a lot of thought, don't second guess yourself. It is what it is and you must have had a reason to do it. As far as I'm concerned, filing doesn't mean you are throwing in the towel. It means that you are not willing to let things go on the way they were. I am sure others may disagree, but that's just my opinion, for what it is worth :-)