Is the house that your H bought the one the OW lives in or another property? Then I would echo Ellie's questions depending on the answer.
I know it is hard to not jump to conclusions, but try. I would try to get a better handle on the finances, but as you have said, you are financially fit on your own, so is it worth the pain? Will it make a difference if you know and can you do anything about it anyway?
Now don't jump on me everyone - Opt has never indicated that her H wouldn't do right for her D and if she is financially independent, maybe she doesn't need to borrow H's financial trouble...just protect herself.
In the meantime, how is D reacting to H being gone with no communication? I think kids adjust to the physical absence, but no communication can be tough.
Any plans for this evening? I rented the kids a bunch of DVDs and my H is coming over to watch a movie with me (yes - you read that right). My saga continues...
Well Opt - I am here for you and praying as always.
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
