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Honestly I don't think that I'd feel such a sense of devastation about my M if my children weren't involved.

I know I would feel LESS devestation for sure!

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At least the stakes will never be that high again for me since I'm not having more children. I guess you're potentially in a different situation newmama.


No, contrary to popular belief from everyone (lol!) I do not want to give birth to any more children. If I meet a fella and we fall in love and he has kids I will grow fond of his kids in a stepmother way, but no more new kids for me. I do not want my son to be the half child.

Also I have a class every year of children so NO MORE KIDS for me! smile


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004