I like your outlook on things. I really do. I remember when I was single and dating, I was always looking for the ONE, you know? I sometimes didn't allow myself to just enjoy the moment and not look too far into the future. It seems that you have discovered that secret.
I hope that you can start living in the moment more and more. Wasn't that part of what happened in our marriages -- not living in the present, in order to avoid the pain of what was missing? I'm realizing more and more that living in the NOW with eyes WIDE OPEN is the best way that we can protect ourselves and enjoy life's blessings where we can.
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Now - just enjoy yourself - when you are with him and when you are alone or with your kids. I envy you at this point. I still don't want my M to end, but I do miss that connection and the physical part of the opposite sex.
WOW do I miss it! whistle
IDU
I hear you IDU. (((hugs))) It saddens me to think of so many of us being deprived of that connection for so long. I guess one thing you can do is to recognize that that is there for you when you're ready.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
