Nope- you definitely have a girlfriend boyfriend thing going on.
So here is my next question--what are you hoping or wanting or needing to define? What doubts are creeping in your mind when he is away? Maybe it is normal for all of us left behind spouses...and there is nothing wrong with your relationship with him!
In fact, you and guitarist are living in the present/near future and this is how it goes until suddenly time flies and it has been a year (or more) and someone asks the other to move in.Oh, I guess at some point before then, he will tell you he loves you. MAYBE that is what you are needing/seeking as the next step?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
