MLC, H & me...moving foward

[newmama]

I am sure he misses you, CW, even while he is with OW. I agree with your friend- what does it matter at this point if you are too friendly or not. You can just be you.

I admit I feel some freedom on the interactions since we divorced. So I hope you start to feel some of that. Again, who knows what life will bring in 1-3 years from now?

Now please promise that the next time he says he paid for something that you don't offer to pay!!! Remember that you are working multiple jobs and struggling- it is the least he can do

(in my case I am fortunate that exH is paying more than he has to so for certain things I will offer to pay part but I wouldn't if he wasn't being generous)