I hear ya on the "out of league" thing. I always wonder if it's that they don't get that there is a league difference *or* are they naive enough to think that the league difference doesn't matter? Research actually shows that couples do best when they are considered of similar attractiveness (based on strangers' assessments). Keep in mind too that some people are online because they are busy and their lifestyles don't bring them in contact with suitable singles. Others are online because they are, well, losers. It's harsh but true.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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