Moving to the next phase of what?

[irishblessings]

Cagz -

I see a lot of similarities between our situations. I have no doubt my D will be final shortly after the first of the year. My H will not stop until he "rids" himself of the reason for all of his unhappiness.

You have 2 beautiful children - there is NO failure there.

You remained a loving, faithful wife for 20+ years.

There is VALUE there and a VALUE ADDED life = Success

Good thoughts and prayers your way!

IB