Antlers it's a Ninja 650R and it's a blast to ride. I almost laid it down going through a decreasing radius turn this weekend but she saved me- she's been good to me so far.
How long will you be paying the CS and spousal support? Yes, she may take you back to court or she may not. Unfortunately, this is something most of us will have to live with for a while. It feels like we're paying the price for ever getting married and having better jobs...how stupid but you know what? we built ourselves up to this point and we'll rebuild ourselves again. Besides money is not everything in life. Peace and contentment are worth more than gold- I try to remind myself of this too. Besides, what're the alternatives? stay bitter for the rest of your life? become a drunk bum and get fired from your job? nah! that's not the way to live. That just gives our spouses too much power. Live happy, that's the best revenge in life.
Sounds like a nice ride. I enjoy riding my motorcycles a bunch. It's tempting to exceed the speed limit, by a lot, because these machines are so capable and powerful.
I'll be paying child support for the next 4 years, barring anymore legal moves by her. Spending 5 figures on legal fees, in addition to having to pay her $107,000 straight cash, has destroyed the retirement account that I singlehandedly built up for our future over about 2 decades. It sucks. I'm a nurse for cryin' out loud! That's a ton of money for someone in my income range.
"Living well is the best revenge"...I do believe that.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
