Hi Opt, Hi Rach (ahem, I mentioned the paragraphing thing some time ago R... )

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Sometimes, like you I wonder if I can ever heal from this monumental betrayal. If he had ended it and not lied several times, it might have helped. Like your H he was very good at deceibt.



I don't know if you will, but you CAN...I did. The lies CJ told, the double life, the two OW...the PAIN!!!...barely a whisper remains.

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He now says it's over and he has not talked to her at all. The last time I questioned this he got defensive. I merely stated that I found it VERY hard to believe that after all this time she suddenly just stopped calling him. I asked for help in understanding this, and he had none to offer.



Well Rach...after bomb #2 (when OW called me and I found out about her)...CJ "broke it off" and that was it..no contact, nothing...

I found this highly suspicious, but when I'd ask, CJ would become VERY angry and defensive. Of course it WAS still going on...but WAIT..!

After bomb #3 (when he'd ended it for real, and she had to call me to blow the whistle on him again) I was VERY suspicious!!!

I find it hard to believe that that psycho b!tch stuck to her word for once (she'd promised me after bomb #2 that she'd never call here nor bother CJ again... )...but CJ's Christmas letter makes it clear that this time it DID end with no contact.

I think this time OW sensed clearly that she'd LOST!!!

She sure didn't expect me to e-mail her thanking her for getting the hell out of our M!!! (And quasi=threatening to call her H if she bothered us)

So Rach, it IS possible that it just flat ended, CJ's did.

Hang in there gals...so MUCH is possible!

Shiny