Thanks for visiting... I will read more on your sitch and tell you about the similarities when I have a bit more time...
One suggestion only: I find it a bit difficult to read your posts because your paragraphs are not set apart. Someone posted that to me when I started and was right: hitting enter after each paragraph will make them much easier to read.
Type at you later...
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"