Hi Opt. I have been told to visit your thread because we have things in common. After reading where you are with your H I see that you have doubts after so many lies, but your trying so hard to be optomistic (Hmmm. I see the correlation!) You have agreat attitude about him taking this trip. If you want, read up on my thread and see where I am in all this mess. I will go back and read more of your sitch also. Don't worry, we'll all be here for you-you can take that to the bank! Rachael
