what a great and truthful post I look back on all of us when this first started and never did I predict the outcome-MY xh totally finally abandoned us, his kids, his mother, his family no financial support, not phonecalls--my situation may be a bit extreme, but I believe My xh would have taken it all if he could have so I totally agree--A LBS can not trust the words of her MLCer H That is hard to understand b/c we thought we knew them and maybe they changed and usually the MLC unpredictability will continue for some time to come--I agree definitely get a legal plan in writing
and yes db is for us-what a great blessing it has been..it totally changed my life now I am at peace and in total acceptance(mostly) peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
