Thanks ya'll. I have a good amount of free time this weekend, and fun stuff planned to do with my D when I get her in a little bit. Tomorrow after SIL & niece's b-day H is taking D3 camping. I plan to work on rearanging the house a bit while she is gone. The change of sceenery should help.
As far as D3 crying, I know she is ok. I'm not going to try to ease his guilt. I'll keep to my line that 'she needs to be with her daddy too' when H tells me how hard of a time they are having. He will figure it out. I do plan to talk to him about moving the night-night calls a bit earlier. I think our baby is going to be better off saying goodnight before she starts her bedtime routine than right before going to sleep.
It is time I stop waiting for my H and start moving on. It is getting cold out side. Time to shut the door. Not locked yet, but shut now. This weekend, after D3 leaves for her camping trip, I will start that "up, up, up" thread.