I've got to admit..."Women's Infidelity" was a bit depressing.

I guess I was hit by the discussion about once a woman loses all feeling for her spouse, that it's irreversible and too late to do anything about.

Yet I come here, and read the opposite, as in your case Sandi.

=O/

M: 29, W: 28
Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09)
Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10
Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010
Separated 5/22/10 - Present
Affair exposed 7/7/10
No children