You can do it Dagny! I kind of feel that I'm in the same boat as you. I just don't care anymore, I don't care if H is lying, I don't care if he thinks he should be around our daughter . . . I just don't care, I'm not trying for this anymore. I know what would be best for our daughter and me, but I can't make him make the decisions to do what's best (if I could, I'd still have my family). All of those are valid fears, I definitely feel them, but I also try to keep the reality of everything in view. I love these boards because you do get so much advice from so many different view points.
